Neumate is Unique

Neumate’s social space and user experience mimic real world social dynamics accurately. No other online dating site or swipe dating app does. We can provide a step-by-step tour of every feature and compare it to the real world, but we won’t. It will be obvious once you Neumate. Here is the 411 on two unique features, our Groups and our Token.

• Neumate Groups intentionally do not operate like commonplace social media walls. Our Groups do not allow memes, videos, gifs, links, or photos to be uploaded or shared, and there is no component of ‘popularity’ (e.g., liking posts) when participating. Our Groups are designed for 1) real conversation and 2) to empower our members to set up GTGs (get-togethers), such as a happy hour casual meetup at a local wine bar or an outing to a local sports game. For many adult singles, engaging conversation about topics of similar interest is very attractive, even irresistible. Groups allow our members to get to know each other in an entirely new way. Members also choose if they want their favorite Groups to be listed on their profiles, which is a fantastic way to meet people with common interests.
• Our Token allows Neumate to be utilized on demand. When activated, it provides 24 hours of premium access, which includes communication on Neumate Messenger and participating in Neumate Groups. This means Neumate works on everyone’s personal timeline and schedule, ensuring that the courting process and the laws of attraction are not being manipulated by artificially created timing pressures.

  Members can also gift a Token to other members who interest them. This is just like having a bartender deliver a drink to someone. It is a wonderful icebreaker and a gesture of kindness, and it also removes all uncertainty, guaranteeing that the person being contacted will be able to read and respond without the need to subscribe.

  • Gifted Tokens are not accepted or rejected, which could create pressure and/or be confused with being interested in someone or not. They are simply deposited into your account and reside in your balance to use whenever you want.
  • We limit gifting a Token to each member once. This prevents any member from gifting a barrage of Tokens to the same member -- simply put, attraction cannot be forced.
  • Each member can choose to turn this feature off, so that other members cannot gift them Tokens at all.